Julia Keller, of Chicago Tribune, wrote about the current crop of unpunished dragon ladies:
They’re not meek. They’re not mild. They do as they please and they don’t play well with others. They’re misfits with moxie. And unlike the powerful female characters of a previous generation, they’re not depicted as witches, shrews, hags, evil stepmothers or shriveled-up spinsters who eventually get their comeuppance.
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The new breed of brash, audacious woman has pushed into literature as well. Lisbeth Salander, heroine of the best-selling mystery novel “The Girl With the Dragon Tattoo,” by the late Stieg Larsson, published last month in paperback by Vintage, is “prickly and irksome” but somehow still alluring: “She was like a nagging itch, repellent and at the same time tempting,” the narrator notes. With her tattoos and her piercings and her heavy boots, she’s no debutante. Instead, she’s a brilliantly efficient investigator. Ditto for Darlene O’Hara in Peter De Jonge’s “Shadows Still Remain” (2009), a sassy woman who breaks rules and gets results.
To be sure, strong women characters have been around for centuries. Antigone was no slouch, and if you knew what was good for you, you didn’t mess with Lady Macbeth. But what’s new about the current pack of powerful females is that by and large they’re not punished for their bold, pushy ways. They get by with their brassiness. From the singer Pink to Jada Pinkett Smith — who plays a purposeful, principled nurse in the new cable series “Hawthorne” — such women aren’t forced to apologize for forthrightness and verve.
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Nowadays, many female characters are both pugnacious and popular. Even with a smart mouth and comically poor housekeeping skills, Hunter’s character in “Saving Grace” is not exactly hard up for male companionship. She has a rich and varied social life. She’s a party girl, able to knock back a half-dozen Budweisers and fill up a trio of ashtrays in a single night, but somehow she’s on time for work the next morning. McCormack’s character in “In Plain Sight” is notoriously short-tempered and ill-mannered, but if you’re in trouble, you want her in your corner. And she’s dating a handsome pro athlete. In the current film “Night at the Museum: Battle of the Smithsonian,” Amy Adams portrays Amelia Earhart as bold, dauntless, daring — and sexually aggressive with Ben Stiller’s character. The self-confident Stephanie (Sandra Oh) in the 2004 film “Sideways” has no problem speaking her mind — or filling her dance card.
Why are such women showing up on our screens, pages and iPods? Tracking down a single tap root for a cultural shift is always tricky, but many of the works featuring powerful, alluring female characters — such as “Nurse Jackie” and “Saving Grace” — are created or produced by women.
Seeing that women are starting to show up in important places, the expectation may have become exceedingly high – you’re going to have to bake your cake and eat it too. Perhaps my expectation regarding the strong modern woman has been set at this level of success that it was particularly startling to see how Christine in Dragged Me To Hell was depicted in the film. It should be noted that these fierce women Keller spoke of already possessed some power to level the playing field within their context. When you have to climb your way up – keeping in mind the need to appear as a good and competent person like Christine did in the film – perhaps bulldozing wouldn’t be the preferred route. Being mindful of others’ feelings and strategic about when to speak up may still be the smart way towards movement, lateral or vertical. However, due to the increased exposure to loud and successful women, perhaps in time people would be more at ease with (rather than frightened by) women taking the bull by the horn. I know that part of my being able to work with strong willed women has to do with my attributing their tenacious manner to their personal characteristic (of a willful individual) rather than ‘taking it personally.’ Doing so may prevent unnecessary ego injury or the imposing of moral compass, which people tend to fall into when dealing with these women. This is an up side of growing up with a strong willed woman – familiarity breeds content (or just specific competence)? Increased acceptance may eventually make the idea of ‘having it all’ less a fantasy for these women – until then, it may pose as another oppressive ideal that women feel they must live up to, being aggressive and successful, just like ‘that woman on TV.’














